Everyone I have been dealing with in business has been letting me down in so many ways that I just want to disappear. I am constantly sorry dealing with people after losing my money, energy and time. I am losing with each and every single one of them. I am constantly making mistakes with the people I choose to trust and work with. I give more respect to these people than I give to myself and then they spit on me or rudly ignor me and take the money and literally run. I have robed myself of too much all the time and I know better but I give people the benefit of the doubt anyway. How can I change and what can I do to stop being so nice to people who don’t care about me.
I am far from being finanically rich and everyone knows this, so do they think I can afford to be ripped off.
Tags: Advantage, Dealing With People, Money, Nice People, Single One
Business is business. Figure out what you need to make in order to make a sufficient profit and stick to it. “Nice” should not be in a business vocabulary. “Friendly, good service, good product, timely”, these are business words. People will always take what they can get. It’s up to you to present your business in an attractive way and still make a profit. Figure out what your true investment is, decide on a price, and have the confidence to be firm about it. Find other reasons why people will want what you have,i.e. quality, style, exclusivity, speed, etc. Sell those points.
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the problem of being nice to people is when we expect people to being nice to us. if you have that believe you will always be hurt. we are responsible for our mistake and people who give others problem are responsible for their act. life is about learning and teaching. and definitely life is not ours so we can’t do this and that and get what we want. human beings is a survival machine. if you can’t survive in this world you are not using most of your survival kit. we learn thru our experiences and teach other from that experiences. that’s how we grow ourselves. blaming others only prevent us from growing stronger personally.